Wednesday, September 7, 2011

I've lost happiness lately ... Has anyone seen it around?!



They always say "Happiness Shared Is Multiplied"....

Well I've never believed in that... Asked Why? I've always replied with a single reply; it's that for sure when you seek for your own happiness, when you buy yourself stuff and travel to places that makes you happy is always better than doing something that will make more than a single person happy... because then it means happiness is divided... it became less than when it's only yours.. Bottom of line I've always thought that "Happiness shared is divided" never multiplied...

But then I created my page on FaceBook for sharing my favorite passion "Quotes"... at first I've done it for gathering a lot of fans and be like famous page... I really cared about the quantity of people liking my page... But then I discovered that was too shallow ... it was a superficial way of thinking.

Through passing days, when I connected with my fans, I found out that a single quote, word or video that I share can affect their lives. One quote of happiness can brighten their day and fill them with enthusiasm and optimism. Another quote of inspiration can help them focus more in their work and dreams. A single photo may cheer them up. I began to feel happy for some fan and sympathize another. I felt like having a whole new family which I respect and love.

At a moment I saw a clearer view of the picture. I found myself happy whenever I feel that I've helped a fan with one word or with a simple "thank you" or even with a "same here" which made him felt that his not alone. I feel happy when I see a word of appreciation or admiration of the page.

You know why being happy alone isn't as beautiful as together?
Because being happy by yourself never lasts. The mobile you've thought will make you happy... Sooner or later you're gonna use to it. The country you dreamt of visiting one day... Will make you happy but only till you go back home.

On the contrary, when you share happiness, be sure it will last. Offering a simple smile to a stranger may change his whole life... may give him hope to keep searching for the job he thought would never find. Telling a girl she is beautiful can make her feel that she is no longer unwanted.

Sharing happiness and kindness makes you feel that they are materialized infront of you and never lost... because if you looked deeply in the eyes of those you shared happiness with... You will find them sparkling with what you've shared .. with happiness J

I guess I finally found what I've been looking for ..