P.S. {HE} is a human tOo

Going through quotes, notes or books, you always notice a common question which is how to treat a woman?!

Most of the time people are discussing ways of treating women and that they should be handled with care and kindness …. Etc.

They always justify the need of a woman to be treated with caution by the fact that a female is fragile. She is weak, passionate and mainly controlled by her feelings.

Well I always thought to myself "what about the human being called (MALE)?! "

I believe he too deserves to be treated with kindness even more than a woman does.

Men; they go through a lot during a day. Most of them work hard to support a sister, a mother, a wife or a whole family. They suffer a lot and carry huge burdens. Some even get humiliated to earn money and afford food.

I know many Females will argue that men do have fun and go out enjoying their times, that we women care about everything at home and I totally agree with them.

Some men neither work nor participate in cleaning the home or taking care of their children.

But here I’m talking about those who do work and even help their family at home.

Both males and females have moments of weakness. However women can express their sadness by crying or even shouting. A man on the other hand will try to hold his sadness and problems deep inside, he won’t unleash them. He is required to always be firm and to never appear weak.

That’s why I’ve always believed a male is in need for a special treatment too. He thirsts for kindness and care that are best offered by a woman: a sister, a mother, a granny or a wife.

I believe FeMale isn’t a haphazard word. To me it means [Fe2+] Male i.e. the iron of a man. A female is the source of strength and support. As iron improves the immune system, so does the woman with her caring and kindness, supplies man with the ability to keep going and keep up with his everyday duties.

I can’t deny women do need to be treated well but so do men. Listening carefully to a male’s problem can make him comfortable. Offering a simple thank you as a way of appreciating his efforts, encourage a man to do more and more for you. They even sometimes need to be told that everything is going to be fine, because though looking holding it together pretty well, a man could be falling apart deep within.

It’s like dealing with a child considering himself an adult. 

Though you treat him like a grown up, you always know that every now and then he is in need to a kind word and a gentle pat on the back.

In the End, a man will always be a woman’s protection and shelter. However a female holds the steering wheel most often, so try to acquire the driving license..

Consider him a human too.. And start treating him on that basis.